4.3 No Man Is an Island
The Egg Came First!
Man is intrinsically (biologically) social. The affordance of successfully nurturing progeny to a self-sufficient being is heavily weighted to group effort.
This point may be subverted by perspective. A person may think and feel they are "self-made," when, in fact, they could not exist except for their progenitors and, almost universally, their social environment.
4.3.1 The Mythic Hero
Telling Yourself the Story
While being a social creature, interacting with our parents, sibs, and the panoply of indoctrinating "folk," we narrate our own story. This process creates a unique "self" perspective. Even in communal cultures like Japan, people can't avoid seeing themselves as playing the "central role" of such a perspective story.
The 'Me' Magnet
No Copernicus, Your Wrong!
Perspective story is so basic that it creates a special set of relationships. Not only are you the "center of the universe," all things are in magnetic relationship to you i.e. things happen to and because of "you."
4.3.2 The Ties That Bind
Why We Owe
The fact that we were born, and not just by our mothers, but by a social enclave, traces and bears a debt throughout our biology and psyche. Our unique self emerges from that path as an accumulation of relations that have marked us.
We are a gestalt of our capacities and indoctrinations.
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